Your Ad Here

| Home | Site Map | Salesmanship Ebook | Motivational Ebook | Job and Resume Posting  | Affiliate program | Mp.sg

All Marketing Information : | Blog and Rss | Insurance Articles | Jobs and Career Articles | Cold Calling Skills | Marketing Resources | Sales Management | Sales Training | Sales and Marketing | Customer Service | Negotiation Skills | Business Ethics  | Coaching | Goal Setting | Leadership | Entrepreneurship | Small Business Succeed | Business Strategic Planning | Marketing ideas | Network Marketing MLM | Team Work  | Philosophy | Psychology |  Presentation Skills | Public Relationship Advertising Tips | How To | Motivation | Inspiration | information: Motivation Drive | Learn To Success | Inspiration | Positive AttitudeNet Marketing Information : Online Marketing | Pay Per Click Advertising | Affiliate Revenue & Marketing Tips | Health InformationElder Health Care | Meditation | Travel Information : Cruising | Travel | Insurance | Golf | Jobs :  Jobs and Career Articles

 Click here For Health | Supplement & Fitness Articles by Phd
Supplement:


Recipe Ebook:   Bread | Cake | Jams | Crock Pot | Chili | Chicken | Soup | Quick and Easy | Italian | Chinese | Punch | Wine | Mexican  | Salad |  world cooking

90days Money back Guarantee Herbal Sexual Enhancer Click Here

Click Here for Psychological Erectile Dysfunction Treatment

Constructive Group Dynamics: How to Go from the S.N.I.P.P.Y. Syndrome to a C.L.E.A.R. V.I.E.W.


If asked to look at your work calendar for the week, the odds are pretty good that you have a few if not several meetings already scheduled. Now, if asked how you feel about attending some of those meetings, the odds are even better that you may either roll your eyes, groan or mutter something under your breath. Sound familiar so far? Okay, that was the easy part.

Coming from a background of 20 years in the corporate world, I can readily identify with attending a surplus of meetings. Additionally, I know all too well how employees come to "dread" going to meetings and clearly I fell into that category as well. But now in retrospect, I've come to learn a few things, as we often do once we step back and reflect. After reading this article, you'll have a better understanding of what causes meetings to break down-- (S.N.I.P.P.Y) syndrome and an alternative (C.L.E.A.R. V.I.E.W.).

See if you can relate to any of the following statements:

1. Look, I've invested a lot of time on this idea and
    if we can't move on it, I'll have wasted my time.          Self-serving

2. We never get anything done in this meeting, anyway.   Negativity

3. We have to enforce this policy so people know right
    from wrong.                                                          Insisting

4. Can you believe how domineering she is in these
    meetings--who hired her, anyway?                            Provoking

5. Given our roles in the company, I think it's obvious
   that I should make the final decision.                          Power driven

6. If you would let others speak once in a while, it would
    be helpful.                                                            You statement

As human beings, it's easy for all of us to fall into any of these behaviors from time to time. What's more problematic however, is being unaware of our behavior and the effect we have on others in the workplace. As we know, like the "common cold," our attitudes can be contagious. The reason for this is something called the interaction cycle. The interaction cycle addresses how we interact with others and this impacts the quality of our relationships.

The key components of the interaction cycle include:

a. Values/Expectations/Mindset: these form our initial impressions.
b. Selective Perception: a filtering function that only lets in what matches our initial impressions.
c. Feelings: a range of negative to positive thoughts triggered by our perceptions.
d. Action: our feelings ultimately influence our behaviors.
e. Reaction: others respond to us by the way we act, so their behavior is in fact the result of what we send out.

What we know then is that behavior breeds behavior. Now, it's starting to make some sense as to why we and others act as we do. But, the more critical issue is figuring out what can be done.

This brings us to a C.L.E.A.R. V.I.E.W. which is as follows:

C = Concentrate on the listener
L = Listen with the goal of understanding
E = Eliminate judgmental attitudes
A = Actively listen (paraphrase what you believe someone said)
R = Respect differences
V = Value input offered by others
I = I messages (describing someone's behavior and its effect on you)
E = Encourage participation from others
W = Work towards agreement (build on what others say and then add your        input)

Wouldn't you rather have a C.L.E.A.R. V.I.E.W. than the S.N.I.P.P.Y. syndrome? Change is a gradual process; however with increased insight and the right tools, we can all make a contribution towards constructive group dynamics. After all, why dread something that we could ultimately look forward to?

Contact information: www.speech-matters.com; dale@speech-matters.com

Dale Klein is a Corporate Communication & Speech Specialist and is the owner of SPEECH MATTERS. When it comes to ensuring you speak with power, professionalism and polish, you'll want to contact Dale Klein to get results at http://www.speech-matters.com or call 518-664-6004.

Solutions & Treatments

Self Improvement Category | Personal Development Category | Building Self Confidence | Interview Anxiety | Building Self Esteem | Self Motivation Booster | Be Yourself Socially | Public Speaking Confidence | Overcoming Shyness | Improving Concentration and Focus | Develop Optimism | Creativity Booster | Cool Down Blushing Dating Confidence | Assertiveness Training | Increase Emotional Intelligence | Hypnotherapy Category | Fears & Phobias Category | Anger Control | Fear of Rejection | Stop Premature Ejaculation | Agoraphobia | Fear of Confrontation | Dealing with Guilt | Fear of Failure | Cure Impotence | Stop Panic Attacks | Stop Nail Biting | Fear of Flying | Get Over a Relationship | Fear of Rejection | Health Category | Relaxation Category | Weight Loss | A Healthy Rest | Exercise Motivation | The Four Seasons | Healing Power | A Warm Place | Quit Smoking - Stay Stopped | The Island | Get Rid of Migraines | Stress Management Category | Relieve Stress and Tension | Improve Your Mood | Energy Booster | Sales and Marketing | Self motivation & dream achieving techniques  | Self Motivation Booster | Increase Emotional Intelligence | Body Language | Fear of Rejection | Fear of Failure |

For more hypnosis categories  Click Here

Download Free Audio Training Course Click Here

Your Ad Here

| Home | Site Map | Salesmanship Ebook | Motivational Ebook | Job and Resume Posting| Affiliate program |

All Marketing Information : | Insurance Articles | Jobs and Career Articles | Cold Calling Skills | Marketing Resources | Sales Management | Sales Training | Sales and Marketing | Customer Service | Negotiation Skills | Business Ethics  | Coaching | Branding | Goal Setting | Leadership | Entrepreneurship | Small Business Succeed | Business Strategic Planning | Marketing ideas | Organizing | Network Marketing MLM | Team Work  | Philosophy | Psychology |  Presentation Skills | Public Relationship Advertising Tips | How To | Time Management | Spirituality | Attraction | Humanities  | Motivation | Inspiration | information: Motivation Drive | Learn To Success | Inspiration | Positive Attitude | Net Marketing Information : Why & How > Online Marketing  | Pay Per Click Advertising | Affiliate Revenue & Marketing Tips | Email Marketing | What is SEO | Blog and Rss | Ezine  Marketing | Ezine Publishing | Internet Security | Web Design | Web Development | Writing | Write Articles | Health Information Elder Health Care | Meditation | Weight Loss | Acne | Yoga | Stress Management | Depression | Sexuality | PregnancyNutrition | Medicine | Supplements | Exercise | Build Muscle | Aerobics Cardio | Diabetes | Breast Cancer  | Weight Loss  | Yoga  |  Fitness EquipmentHumor | Alternative Treatment | Property : Leases & LeasingReal Estate | Travel Information : Cruising | Travel | Insurance | GolfVacation Rentals  Money and You: Credit | Currency Trading | Debt Consolidation | Debt Relief | Investment | Loans | Mortgage Refinance | Personal Finance | Stocks Mutual Funds | Wealth Building | JobsJobs and Career Articles   |  Gourmet : Coffee | Cooking Tips | Recipes  |  Net Phone : Voip  | Leisure : Creative |  Martial Arts | Interior Decorating  | Landscaping GardeningGolf  | Fashion StyleCrafts Hobbies | Fishing | Music/MP3 | Pets | Science | Innovation | RelationshipDating | DivorceMarriage Wedding | Parenting | Relationships | Grief Loss Belief: Spirituality |

2006 All Rights Reserved. by Mp.sg Term of use and service for the articles and information